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Reimagine

February 21, 2026
As a young person, I spent huge amounts of time imagining the future.Who I would marry.What kind of mark I would leave on the world.There was always an abundance of possibility waiting out there in the land of wondering.There is a particular kind of romanticism and low-grade...
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The Shadow Side of 'Nice'

February 13, 2026
For most of my life, I have moved through the world from a posture of pleasantness. My disposition was one in which my determination and desire were for you to always leave an interaction with me feeling good about yourself.I learned early that a key social currency was poli...
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The Reward of Repair

January 25, 2026
This past week, I let my wife down.She was really hurt, and there were a few tender days to follow.It sucks when you see your person in pain.And trying to restore connection isn’t always simple. It can feel complex, at times layered, with diverse dynamics at play.That “s...
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